How do you fail all the time unless you get lucky?
You just have to think like a beta male.
How you think matters!
I don’t know if you know this or not, but you need to know that the battle is won before you even start.
It all starts with the mind.
Your mind is a very powerful tool. It can make you do things you never thought possible, it can make you dream bigger than you ever knew you could and it can make you fail when you shouldn’t be failing.
Today we are going to talk about the beta male mentality and how it can impact your life. We’ll discuss the good, the bad and the ugly. Read this article not only for entertainment purposes but because it is vital to change the way you think if you want to be a dynamic alpha male.
Simply put, the beta male mentality is all about being negative. Negative about yourself. Negative about others. Negative about your current situation. Negative about your future. Negative about everything. It’s actually exhausting just writing how negative the beta male mentality is.
We need to dive deeper though and provide a better explanation of what the beta male mentality is so you understand it and you can recognize if you think the way a beta male thinks.
What Is the Beta Male Mentality?
If there was an award for losing, a beta male with the beta mentality would win it.
You see, a beta male isn’t confident. He is insecure and doesn’t have the competitive attitude to do whatever it takes to win. A beta male is content with just trying. He’s content with just being part of the action.
It’s been said that a beta male likes to lose, so he can feel sorry for himself. I don’t know if this is completely true or not but I can see that there is some truth behind that statement.
Anyways, let’s get down to business and talk about how a beta male thinks.
Beta males don’t think highly of themselves
It’s sad but true. Beta males just aren’t really confident. They think other people are better than them when in might not even be the case. They have this idea in their head that they need to be perfect so unless they are, they aren’t confident in what they do or what they say.
Beta males think they are ugly
Beta males usually have low self-esteem so they don’t think they look good. Beta’s think other men look better than them and they themselves aren’t attractive. This isn’t always the case but in the mind of a beta it is.
Beta males don’t feel like they deserve anything
Beta males don’t always feel worthy. Due to their low self-esteem and lack of confidence they think people give them things out of feeling sorry for them rather than because they deserve or earn it. And if a beta male does something right he feels it’s all luck and not really because of his own ability.
Beta males think being “nice” is always right
Being nice is good. Being too nice is bad. Beta males are always trying to be helpful but go to the extreme and try to help more than they can. They try to please everyone. Beta males think being nice makes everyone like them.
Beta males don’t want to rock the boat
Beta males don’t want to be different, they want to fit in, so they think if they do what everyone else does they will be accepted. This causes a beta male to not do what he wants, but what he thinks everyone else wants.
Beta males are scared of hurting people’s feelings
Beta males are like everyone else, they know right from wrong. They know good from bad. But what separates a beta male is that he is afraid to speak up and be honest when it could hurt someone’s feeling. This isn’t a bad thing to care for other people’s feelings but it can be detrimental to a beta male and others around him if he cannot be honest with people because he cares too much about how someone else will feel.
Beta males think being a jock (athletic) is for losers
Beta males have a different idea of what a man is. A man to a beta male is suppose to be a hard working, sincere, happy individual. If a man is super athletic, masculine or acting like your “typical” man that likes girls, beer and sports, a beta male thinks this is not someone people want to be around.
Beta males think about how bad something can turn out
Beta males are worriers. They think about the negative consequences more than they do about how great something can turn out. This limits the choices they make in their life because they don’t want to fail. Beta males would rather not try than fail and feel embarrassed.
Being Beta is Not All Bad
We focus on the less favorable aspect of the beta mentality because it is important to not think this way. You need to recognize if fit into any of these categories and if you do, you need to try to change the way you think.
There’s nothing wrong with being a beta male if that’s what you want to be. But the likelihood of you being on this site and reading this article is very slim if you’re okay with the idea of being a beta male.
Unfortunately there is no real glory in having the beta male mentality. You are nice, but you are limited by your own mind.
There are great things about all people. But we are about empowering and being limitless. We are about living the life you’ve always dreamed of. And the only way to do that is to have the right mentality. It all starts with the mind.