The mind is very powerful. What you think, what you imagine, what you see, what you visualize, shapes how you feel, what you do, and the person you are and who you strive to be.
If you are focusing on the negative, spend some time to actively change your thoughts toward your goals or who you want to be and what you want in your life.
Imagine what it feels like to achieve or have what you believe you deserve and what you want.
Imagine that you have already achieved it and embrace that feeling.
Chase that rather than chasing your problems or your past.
This is how you become alpha (male or female, man or woman).
Be Bold. Stay Focused on What You Want. Be Alpha.