Here are some quick tips on how to be alpha. Some of them are about you, some of them are about how you should approach thinking and life.
Improve yourself. This means your fitness, clothing, intelligence, attitude, and energy.
Accept that life is not perfect. The thing that impacts most people emotionally is when things do not go their way. Expectations too high. Being unlucky. Believing you deserve more than the effort you are putting in. Be realistic about everything.
Focus on your life. You are responsible for you. Everything else that is external is energy wasted elsewhere. Unless you are happy with what you are doing and who you are, you shouldn’t be judging or focusing on others. Turn that attention inward.
Learn how to talk. So many people nowadays have horrible conversational skills, due to lack of socialization, technology, and lack of practice or not being taught how to properly speak and converse. This is something you can fix and you can control. Don’t let weak speaking abilities be your downfall. This will make you levels better than the beta and sigma males you believe you are competing against. Let them lose, become alpha instead.
Fix your body language. Most people have bad posture. Most people have poor eye contact. Most people stare at their phones for more than one half or two thirds of their waking hours (don’t hold us to this statistic, just know this is an issue). Start doing what exudes confidence and that can start often with your own body language.
Have more courage. We live in a world where playing it safe and being timid is encouraged and accepted. But this leads to mediocrity, unhappiness, and discontent. By taking control of your life and doing things that may scare you (with in reason), you are able to be bold and do what makes you happy. Most often what you want to do is hardest and you will think of all the consequences or unfortunately results that may come, which will prevent you from even trying. Courage and failure go together, without the possibility of failing and losing, you cannot succeed or win. You either accept this challenge, or you stay a beta male coward and reinforce the belief and habit that you are incapable and there are better men amongst you that deserve more than you because they have more courage to try than you do. Do you want this to be you?
Stop fantasizing and start taking action. Thinking, learning, studying, practicing, can only do so much. Nothing will give you the real experience or feedback as doing. And you should expect it to not always be easy until it is easy. In order to truly change your ways and become an alpha male you have to actually do things. Because this will change your bad habits and way of thinking into a new way. By never doing anything or not being consistent, you are just a wiser beta male that is still a beta male but worse, you know how to be alpha but yet still aren’t pursuing it.
If you want more helpful tips on how to be alpha, check out our resources and know that everything is within you to be who you want and live the life you want. But you have to actually be realistic about the effort you are putting forth and what you deserve as a result of that effort. Studying will only get you to the starting line. The rest is up to you and until you begin, you will remain a beta male.
Be Bold. Be Alpha. Do more than you read.
