Anyone can do something hard. Hard is subjective. What is hard to one, may be easy to another.
You are not tough because you do something hard. You are not an alpha male because you do something difficult.
You are an alpha male when you start challenging yourself and you do things that are uncomfortable to you. Things that others cannot do because they are weak minded and give up before they even begin.
Do you understand?
This is about a mindset. Being an alpha male comes down to a lot of traits and characteristics, but most importantly it is about your mindset and mentality.
There are people int his world that people put on a pedestal. Those people on the pedestal are praised for preaching you to get hard or break your body or yell or scream or do random activities that normal people would find silly and foolish. Yet because they have been put on a pedestal, people believe them and think they must have to do those things too in order to be able to be so assertive and respected.
But no, you don’t have to do those things.
What you have to do is just be better than you were. Improve yourself. Push yourself. Do things that are hard to you. Not hard to other people. Expand your mind to accept that you can do more than you have be. To start believing there is more to you than you already have, more than you have already accomplished, and most importantly more to your life.
Everything you have or have not done matters. But what matters most is what you can and will do. Can you push more. Can you find a way to level up? Can you become the person you want to be? Can you fix your bad habits? Can you get started when you are not motivated? Can you accomplish something that you have always felt was impossible and gave up on after a few days or weeks?
This is what it means to do hard things. Hard things is not doing what others have done. Its doing what you have believed to not be possible. Start small if you must. But get to where it is difficult then keep going. That’s where the growth is.
Be alpha by focusing on changing what you believe is possible. And what that is, is personal to you. You must do the hard thing in order to grow your mind and become better. Stop reaching your ceiling because if you look around you and in this world, there are people that are no better than you that have a higher ceiling than you. You can join them. You just have to fix how you think and start going after it.
Be Bold. Be Alpha.
