I want to talk to you for a moment about the seduction community.

Is the seduction community a scam? That’s the question some of you have emailed me about and there is no simple answer. For a lot of guys out there they are either PRO seduction community or ANTI seduction community. I am neither.

I don’t think it’s necessary to spend money to learn how to date more girls. That’s the truth and I’ve stated that several times on To Be Alpha. All you really’ are paying for is to have a guy tell you to go ask for a girl’s number. WASTE OF MONEY!

Now I think it’s good to get someone’s help if you need it. And I’ve spoken to some of you guys and you definitely need some guidance. Straight up some of you guys dress like shit, some of you guys aren’t confident and some of you guys are too much in your head. But you have to be careful who you decide to get advice from. I say this over and over again, only take advice from someone that knows what he’s talking about.

The best advice I got when I was learning how to hook up with chicks was “only take advice from someone that is getting laid…a lot.” And it’s very true. Why do you want to listen to someone that has no real world experience?

With all that said, if I had to give a real answer, then YES, the seduction community is a scam. I say this because of the nature of what this industry sells. The majority, and by majority I would say probably 95% (guesstimate) of the industry sells shit. It sells you on a dream. It sells you on “get any girl.” It sells you theory. It sells you “openers”, pick up lines, “routines”, stories, and other bullshit. The guys selling this shit and I swear to you some of them really believe it’s the fucking lines they are spitting are the reason why they are getting ass, is a bunch of horse shit. 

I used to be buddies with a guy that taught pick up. He actually helped me out a bit…until I figured out the shit he was saying was bullshit and he didn’t even believe some of the shit that was possible (that’s when I realized it was a scam). When you do things they’ve never done and they don’t think it’s possible (i.e mile Hugh club with a stranger, 10 minute pulls, 2 minute xxx…it goes on and on). This guy charged roughly $1500-2500 for 3 day workshops. Crazy! And you know what he would tell me?

“Students just want you to push them into “sets” at workshops. Then you just tell them “ahh man she was so into you, but here’s where you messed up…”

And this “Instructor” who charged thousands of dollars, when asked to do a demonstration…he told me this…

“All students want to see you are going to get a number. They’ve never seen it happen before o all I have to do is choose a girl that isn’t that cute and get her number and they are amazed.”

If those two quotes alone don’t make you think you’re wasting your money taking a workshop then I’ll continue on to prove my point.

The seduction community isn’t here to help you. It’s here to take your money. There is nothing wrong with making money, but I think you need to earn it. Pushing product after product telling guys this is the next best thing is not right.

Here’s what I see wrong with the seduction community industry:

• Paying such a high price for “instructions” is a waste. All they are doing is telling you to go talk to a girl. You can do this on your own.
• Everyone is a self-proclaimed “guru” or instructor. What the fuck? Have you seen most of these guys in real life? They look like clowns.
• You can’t trust these guys. They don’t have your best interest at heart. They are in it for the money.
• I haven’t seen one fucking “guru” that I would want to take advice from.
• Getting laid is NOT that hard. The methods and other bullshit they sell you is for beta male’s that don’t know any better. Be Alpha.
• They do not offer a long-term solution to you unless you pay them more money. Only a scam industry would take your money and not even guarantee you to get the proper help you need for success.

What we offer here is real self-help (if there is such a thing). And what I am most proud of is that we offer it for free. We’re asking you to improve your physique and learn how to dress properly. We’re recommending products to clear your skin and when your teeth. These are the things that make you attractive to the opposite sex. Not fucking dumb ass openers asking stupid ass questions with time constraints or doing some stupid routine that no one fucking understands except the dumb fuck “PUA GURU” that told you told you that dumb shit. 

Do I hate the seduction community?

Nope. I think they’re pretty damn smart because they’re making a lot of money selling shit. Like literally selling shit, and people are buying it.

Do I think the seduction community is a scam?

See above.

Do I think this post will shut down the seduction community?

No. And that’s not my intention. However, I think it will upset some people that I am questioning their values and beliefs.

My goal is for those that read this post to get a different perspective. If you’ve spent money in the seduction community, I hope you consider stopping because of what I’ve written. All that money on theory and magic pills are not necessary or worth it (to me). You are better off spending the money on some nice clothes so a girl finds you sexy.

Be Alpha.