Send a link to this, to your boyfriend. He probably needs to read it, if you’re on this webpage.
Imagine dating someone that acts like a child. It might be cute once in awhile, but who really wants that?
Whether this is you being a bitch or your girlfriend/wife/partner finding this article, it should be a wake up call.
Obviously, you are here for a reason.
Look, no one wants to date a whiny cry baby. Some emotionally immature adult that can’t express himself or communicate or even listen.
If you want to be a good partner then step up your game.
- Stop being fake nice.
- Stop being a people pleaser.
- Stop blaming your partner when something goes wrong.
- Stop waiting for someone to solve your problems or save you.
- Stop wishing you had more.
- Stop being a victim.
- Stop feeling like everyone is criticizing you when they bring something up.
- Stop being so sensitive.
- Stop being so afraid.
- Stop being so passive.
- Stop being so lazy.
- Stop draining your partners energy with your emotions.
- Stop taking your relationship for granted.
- Stop placing all your value in your partner.
If you have reached beta male status with your relationship, it’s time to regroup and refocus. It won’t be easy.
It’s likely that you do not even know there is a problem. You might just blame other’s for whatever you are feeling or what is going on or not even realize that you have become a bitch.
So first, you need to be honest with yourself.
If someone is telling you to stop being a bitch or you have started to question whether you are being a bitch, you are likely a bitch. And that needs to stop.
How to stop being a bitch in your relationship?
Reclaim your masculinity.
- Have an identity.
- Remember your purpose.
- Be a leader.
- Be strong.
- Being a leader.
- Be dominant.
- Remember that relationships are a game and the game never ends.
- Flirt.
- Be sexual.
- Take care of how you look (personal grooming).
- Get in the gym and look good / feel good for yourself and your partner.
- Be a provider (in a healthy way).
- Speak up.
- Talk to your partner.
- Listen.
- Learn how to communicate better.
- Learn how to be more empathetic / emotionally supportive.
- Relearn how to take care of yourself.
- Create moments together.
- Live up to your potential.
The truth is, you have to fix yourself if you are being a bitch. The relationship will follow.
You can try to do both at the same time but making your partner happy is only half the problem.
Find out what’s lacking in your life. Because when you are good, everyone around you is good. If that makes sense.
But also figure out what you need and what your partner needs. And try to figure that out. If there’s only one of you voicing concerns and the other trying to fix everything, then this might be a relationship you want to reconsider.
As a man or woman, you want to be your best self. I don’t want to make this a post about relationships and whether you should end things or fix things, but knowing who you are, who you want to be, and what you deserve are important.
Reclaim your masculinity. Be Bold. Be Alpha. Stop being a bitch.