Take Control of Your Life

1. Man up (grow some balls)

Nothing is more Alpha than having balls. You need to go after what you want in life or you will just be another average Joe that accepts life for what it is.

We’re talking about if you want to do something like move across the country, go back to school, learn a new skill, approach a hot chick, jump out of a plane, defend yourself…whatever it is. You need to have a pair of balls and man the fuck up.

People will respect  you more if you are a real man and do what a man is supposed to do. This mean’s not being a scared little bitch (to put it nicely).

2. Be Dominant

This one goes without saying, really. If you want to be alpha, you need to be dominant. You need to take charge. Be a leader. Be the best

Being dominant means being direct. It means being in control and taking the lead. You give directions, you tell people what to do. You are in a position of power. You dominate everything because you are the best and people respect that.

3. Have The Killer Instinct (be competitive)

Being alpha is about being a winner. There are a variety of ways to win.

The will to win is more  important than skill itself. Having the killer instinct and wanting succcess more than anyone else is how you will succeed in life and be alpha.

Out working your competition and go for the kill. You do whatever it takes to win…that is the killer instinct. This trait is what all highly successful people have. They are out for blood. Alphas expect to win, always. And they don’t just win, they make sure you know they won by destroying their competition.

4. Work Out (Be Athletic)

Don’t be soft. Don’t be a lazy fat loser. When society stereotypes an alpha male, they think of a muscular male that has defined muscle mass. You don’t have to go and become a body builder on steriods but get fit. Be athletic. Get in shape.

Don’t try to be alpha in all parts of your life except the physical aspect. This is also important. You don’t want to be that joke that doesn’t know how to run or throw a ball. What we call a beta male, other’s call a girly man. Working out helps you out mentally and physically,  you’ll feel stronger and more confident about your body and physical appearance.

5. Perseverance

Alpha males never give up. They might fail and try again, but they will never just quit. Average men (beta males) quit. Perseverance is what separates winners from losers.

When the going gets tough or something looks impossible, beta males will just say it’s impossible. Or if a beta male fails once, he says it can’t be done. An alpha male on the other hand knows that he might struggle with something for awhile, but if he keeps trying and breaks through whatever barrier he’s facing, he will succeed.

Never give up.

6. Look the Part

It’s going to be hard to be taken seriously as an alpha male if you dress like shit. You don’t need to become a fashionista but dressing well is important andplays a role in being alpha.

Everyone stereotypes someone else in the first few seconds that they see them. If you dress like a clown, you will be stereotyped as a clown. Know what fits, what is in fashion, who your audience is, and look the part – just better than everyone else.

7. Take Chances

If you want to be alpha, you have to take chances. You have to take risks. No risk, no reward.

You can play it safe your entire life, but you’ll be like every other beta male in this world. Or you can take a chances and potentially be rewarded in life. Don’t live life wonder “what if”, just go for it and see what happens. People respect others that take chances and wish they could do the same.

8. Be Mentally Tough

Believing in yourself and your ability. The never say never attitude. Are you going to fold under pressure, are you going to give up and go home and cry when things go wrong? Or are you going to stay mentally strong in the face of adversity?

Lots of men have a very weak mentality. They lose before they even start because they don’t really have the right mentality. Have convictions in your ideas, don’t be swayed by pressure or external factors. Keep going when others would give up.

Don’t break under pressure. Don’t be a pussy.

9. Be Charasmatic

Alpha males have a special aura that ordinary people do not. They are able to connect with others on a level that makes people leave with a great impression. Others think highly of the alpha male because there is just “something special” about him.

Smile. Connect. Share stories and interests. Compliment. Joke around. Don’t take life so seriously. Be someone people get addicted to and can’t wait to be around you again.

10. Take Responsibility

No one owes you anything. This is your life. Alpha males understand this. They take responsibility and hold themselves accountable. Alpha males know that they need to take control of their own life, they do not go around blaming others or thinking other people are just luckier than them.

Hold yourself accountable for your actions and your life. If you want something, you need to go get it. No one is going to spoon feed you.

Bonus: Enjoy Life

Life is too short to be miserable. Whether you are young or old, you should always enjoy the journey. You will get to where you want to get if you are focused.

Don’t take life so seriously that you put so much pressure on yourself. You will live a very sad life that is full of stress and worry. Ultimately, life is meant to be lived. No matter where you are in life, be grateful that you can change your circumstances if you want to.

Action Plan

If you need help becoming alpha, then you should take immediate action. There’s no point in waiting. Sign up for the waitlist to obtain The Essentials to Becoming Alpha or check out The Book of Alpha.


Be Alpha.