Why James King is a DICK.
I know some of you read my posts on forums replying to messages or even some of my blog postings and say to yourself “This guy is a fucking dick.” I admit that I can be an asshole sometimes, but it’s not because I just want to be an asshole.
My entire life has not been alpha. However, I learned early on in my teens that the only way to get what you want is to leave your ego at the door. And to succeed sometimes you need to be a dick. You can’t just do what’s asked of you your whole life and expect that to be enough. As a leader you need to tell others what they should be doing and that sometimes comes off as an asshole. But it’s an asshole that one respects or despises. Either way, it weeds out the beta males that aren’t ready to succeed at all costs and the advice gets through to those ready for change.
As someone that has probably been in your position before that has been more passive a debt. I understand that criticism is hard to take. But I’m sick of guys trying to “baby” one another and sympathize with each other. It does no one any good if two beta males just pat each other on the back and say “don’t worry…” because fuck that, you should worry. You should want to surround yourself with people better than you, people that can motivate and inspire you, that somehow can tell you what other people won’t tell you. You need that honesty to improve.
I could tell you all day long that “it’s okay, you’re getting there pal!” But I’d be lying to you. I think a lot of you guys waste your fucking time analyzing creative scenarios in your head. I think a lot of you spend too much time worrying about shit that isn’t going to happen. I’ve been there, I know what it feels like. It’s not fun. It’s fucking miserable.
I don’t want you to be here or on any other self-help website a year from now searching for the same answers. I want you to be the person giving advice and answers to the new guys that need help. That’s my ultimate goal. And if it takes being a dick to get through to you, then so be it. But if you’re going to get all emotional and be a bitch because I’m being honest and upfront with you and you can’t take it…then come back when you’re ready.
With self-help sometimes you need thick skin because you’re going to face some challenges as you go through your journey. I’m not the guy to help everyone. I’m the guy that will help those that are hungry…or maybe even starving…ready to take the bulls by the horn and make that change – whatever it takes.
I’ll close by apologizing to all those that get offended by me being a dick. I am sorry. I want to help you, but you’re not ready. I can’t spend my time making you feel better about yourself. There are guys that want real raw help that are willing to take the advice and run with it. Those are the guys I want to focus my time on.
Be alpha.
James
