What you are is what you believe you are.
Without belief or the right mindset, you can try but you will ultimately fail to be alpha.
There is a saying, “FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT” … and some people will say you are lying to yourself if you do that, but that is incorrect. Who is decides who is what and what is who? Ultimately it comes down to the individual. Not what someone else thinks of you.
So if you want to be Alpha, start with believing you are. And if you aren’t, it’s time to start believing. And then getting things in order to make that belief a reality.
We can all tell each other that other people’s opinions matter and if they don’t view you or someone else a certain way, whatever that label is, then you aren’t “that” thing…and there can be a case to be made for that but it’s a weak one.
What matters is what YOU think because it is YOU that decides how YOU want to be and what YOU want to be.
So the question is, do YOU want to be Alpha? If so, then start with the mindset of how you view yourself and the type of person and the life you want. Go from there.
Alpha is not a switch. It’s a choice. And it must be lived.
