Stop being so nice.
That’s what a lot of you beta males need to hear. And it’s not because being nice is wrong. It’s because you are getting taken advantage of and it doesn’t help you in anyway.
If you are being nice because you are always the one helping others and you are giving more than you are receiving, it’s time to realize you aren’t nice. You are a sucker.
- You won’t always get what you want by being nice.
- And you should only be nice if you want to do something.
- Not because you want to get something out of it.
- Don’t make being nice transactional, where someone owe’s you something, because you did something for them.
This doesn’t mean you should just give out favors and do nice things. Instead, questioning whether the person you are helping is actually adding value to your life or just taking advantage of you.
If you are being nice to someone because “you don’t want to get them upset” or “you are afraid of losing them” or you want something in return…this is dumb.
Don’t be dumb. Be Alpha.
Do you think being alpha means letting people walk all over you?
There are billions of people on earth. And you can’t find people that respect you? You can only find people that want to use you?
That’s not alpha. Ponder this. And hopefully you will know your next move.
Be Bold. Be Alpha.
